Humanity is complex. These complications are because of the duality or the multiplicity of the core schema of human beings and its’ ideology.
Being self-contradictory is alright. Learn to deal with it, or rather live with it. Sort your mind out. Feel alive. Love those contradictions and controversies of the multiplicity in human beings.
Then there comes the point, every day, every second wherein you ought to be genuine and honest to that one person who is YOUR-SELF.
Let the hypocrisy not creep in.Let the paradoxes go hand in hand. Have harmony in the contradictions. Be multiple characters. Be YOU.